Archive for 'Advice'
How To Be More Resilient: Reframe So You See Things Differently
February 20th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
You could say; I failed: or you could say; I did not pass this time. You could say; Losing my job is the worst thing that could happen to me: or you could say; Losing my job gives me the push I need to start my own business. You can refer to an event as […]
How to Be More Resilient: Obtain And Use Feedback
February 20th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
You walk into your office and a colleague says: The boss is looking for you. He wants to talk to you. I guarantee that you, like 90% of people, will immediately think: Oh dear, what have I done wrong!
Most people assume that feedback is negative. All of us want to know how we are doing, […]
Ways to Avoid a DUI
February 14th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
Very often, you hear of people receiving a DUI after heading home from a party, a concert, etc. You don’t have to be caught in a situation like this. There are ways for you to go out and have fun, without having to worry about getting pulled over, being put through a series of tests, […]
How to be More Resilient: Focus and Take Action
February 14th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
Resilient people keep going even when the going is tough. They are resourceful. They know how to stay focused and how to maintain their energy levels. Even in the most difficult times, they are the ones who bounce back and get results.
How do they do it?
They have learned and they apply a set […]
Reality is Whatever You are Aware Of
February 12th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
Nobody ever taught you as a child to be curious - you were simply OPEN to what reality could be and because you didn’t really know - anything was possible. A young reality is a magical place.
From the time you were a child your greatest quest has been about discovering what is true. As time […]
How to Make the Most of 5:00-9:00 PM
February 12th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
Let’s forget about 9:00 to 5:00 for a minute. We spend lots of energy making sure that we are efficient and productive during the workday. But what about AFTER the workday? Do you find yourself keeping your nose to the grindstone and working diligently throughout the day only to have it all unravel when you […]
How to Build up Resilience: Choose Your Attitude
February 11th, 2009. Published under Advice. No Comments.
If I started this article by saying that what you think, creates the world around you, you would probably find the statement more than a bit far fetched! Watch how it works.
Imagine that you are a shy retiring person. You feel uncomfortable at big social events and you get tongue tied when you have to […]